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			<title><![CDATA[ Societal priorities ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  The average high energy physicist will receive a much greater benefit from the LHC [Large Hadron Accelerator] than will the average human. Consequently, the
  self-interests of high energy physicists don&#39;t align with that of the rest of humanity in deciding whether to turn on the LHC, so we should be very
  suspicious of their claims <a target="_blank" href="http://emptymirror.blogspot.com/2008/07/god.html">that the LHC is safe</a>.
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			<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 11:16:14 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Ponce de Lon ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ We live in what is steadily and increasingly becoming a youth culture  a culture based around an <!--EZCODE ITALIC START--><em>ideal</em><!--EZCODE ITALIC END--> of youth. Never mind that worldwide demographics still carry that strong pyramidal shape which reminds that what it means to be under the age of majority varies sharply from culture to culture: those trends which are shaped by English-language mass media, primarily in the western world, cultivate a near worship of youth and... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 18 May 2004 13:53:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Embarrassment ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Closely related to, but not synonymous with 'shame'.<br>Why do we feel embarrassed? <br>Why is it that when others recognize our shortcomings, failures, and/or mistakes, we feel acute discomfort? Does the estimation (merely a mental excercise) or analysis of the others or the public harm us? <br>Why is it that when others recognize our association with another person, we feel discomfort when that person's mistakes, failures etc. are recognized? Does the estimation or analysis of others about... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jan 2003 16:41:53 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Merry Christmas!!! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Ok...we can all be humble, right??<br><br>Heheheh.....Merry Christmas to all.  <br><br><br>Even those who like me too much!!;-) ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 24 Dec 2002 17:18:52 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Old friends, new friends. ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Do we pay more attention to new friends, because the relationship is still being defined? And [because there are only so many minutes in the day, and thoughts in the mind], ignore old friends - &quot;they know what I would have said. We *know* each other!&quot;?<br><br>And in the process, treat our old friends as if they were worth less than the new ones? ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 21 Oct 2002 19:08:46 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Blindspots ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Ever know people who criticize certain personality traits in others, yet fail to see that same flaw in him or herself?  <br><br>It's the problem of the &quot;pot calling the kettle black.&quot;  :)<br><br>My favorite example of pot calling kettle black is a person I know who speaks all the time in an extremely abstract, esoteric, and academic fashion.  It's as if this guy is on Professor-lecture mode 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  This guy would probably talk to his 2 year old baby in the... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Oct 2002 01:21:19 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ The Problems of Dead Level Abstracting ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Dead-level abstracting is a phenomenon that occurs when persons remain more or less permanently stuck at either a high or low level of abstraction.  <br><br>For example, certain persons remain stuck at very high levels of abstraction in their writings and speaking, with little or no contact with lower levels.  Such language, according to semanticist S.I. Hayakawa, remains permanently in the clouds.<br><br>S.I. Hayakawa gives a concrete example of a person who is stuck in the clouds at a very... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 13 Oct 2002 18:35:59 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Let's change Feminism's name... ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Well, Ruffled Puppy has kindly invited me to start a new, and hopefully *completely*, *rational* and *unemotional* thread on feminism.<br><br>I've come to the conclusion that the whole problem with feminism is the name.  It's gathered up some serious baggage, so maybe if we have a discussion about feminism, we should ditch the name.  Perhaps, we could make some suggestions as to what we could call it instead.  (Mildred?)<br><br>The point is, is that out of all the websites I've ever been... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 23 Sep 2002 22:45:59 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ A Weighty Decision... ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I've lost a quite a few pounds in recent months [no virtuous self-control, just a string of people walking into my office so I rarely get around to eating the lunch that's sitting on my desk until it's dinnertime]. I have managed to buy some clothes that reflect this personal diminishment.<br><br>My dilemma is - should I donate my Larger wardrobe to charity, or keep it in my closet? That would force me to think of myself as a Permanently Smaller Person, but I know my weaknesses, too, and I... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 21 Sep 2002 17:16:12 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ The historical roots of feminist hatred of men ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ The development of feminist attitudes towards men and women.<br><br>The earliest works on 'the woman question' criticised the restrictive role of women without necessarily claiming that women were disadvantaged or that men were to blame. Mary Wollstonecraft's A Vindication of the Rights of Woman is one of the few works written before the 19th century that can be called feminist. By modern standards her metaphor of women as nobility, the elite of society, coddled, fragile and in danger of... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (Unregistered(d))</author>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 18 Sep 2002 15:55:35 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Proposed - feminists think men are subhuman ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I'd really like to see if anyone here (feminist or otherwise) can throw any light on why it is that feminists cannot understand why discrimination agains men is wrong.<br><br>I'm specifically talking about the example of VAWA that we have been discussing.  I've made the claim (which I beleive has been accepted) that feminists generally support VAWA despite its discrimination against men.  All but Sab of the feminists here has supported the idea of VAWA and its discrimination.  There seems no... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 18 Sep 2002 15:50:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ &quot;EZ Board is a tin-hatted little hitler!&quot; ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ or, &quot;a Cyber-Comedy of Errors&quot;.<br><br>This thread originally had a slightly different title, and a very different topic. Then I noticed that the last 2 or 3 paragraphs were all in italics, so I used the edit button to go back and insert the &quot;end italics&quot; in the proper place. I also added a comment that all I had done in my edit was to insert an &quot;end italics&quot;. As usual, I used brackets rather than parentheses around my comment. [You're all way ahead of me here,... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 18 Sep 2002 07:00:12 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Feminism - NO *EDIT* ADMINS PLEASE ]]></title>
			<link>http://thevirtualcommunity.yuku.com/topic/729/t/Feminism-NO-EDIT-ADMINS-PLEASE.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I am requesting that the *EDIT* administrators for Crossroads leave posters in peace on this thread instead of throwing their weight around as usual. No banning people, no threatening people, no editing posts, no moving posts, no delting posts, no blocking posts, no freezing the thread, no admins attacking posters you don't agree with, no shitty comments hinting at banning people and no mention of your *EDIT* rules --- in fact I don't even want any of you to read this thread let alone post in... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Sep 2002 09:01:18 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ VAWA, is it sexist? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ This is a valid subject, the man who posted it I believe wanted it be considered for serious scrutiny and discussion. I know he is very serious about this subject and does not take peoples input lightly. Shall we give it another try? Here was his opening post.<br><br>&quot;The VAWA is a piece of legislation in the U.S. that focuses on helping women who are victims of violence, hence the name &quot;Violence Against Women Act.&quot; When instituted it was believed that the vast majority of... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (UrnotmeRU)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 09 Sep 2002 22:21:46 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ VAWA - The next generation ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Seems like the thread was locked down and I wanted to continue this discussion if anyone is interested.  Mara?<br><br>Mara had said:<br><!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><b><i>Quote:</i></b><hr> <br> And it's not like you can shelter men in the same place as battered women, just like you can't shelter women in the same place as battered men. <br><hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--><br><br><br><br>And why not? The old excuses that it would bring violence into the shelter are utterly... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (Dr Evil)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 09 Sep 2002 16:30:32 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Bookends ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ &quot;Preserve your memories; they're all that's left you.&quot; - Paul Simon<br><br>I've never been sure whether that meant that the only thing you've lost is your memories, or the only thing you have left is your memories. Or both at once.<br><br>How important are personal memories to the quality of one's life? Are memories a good thing or a bad thing? ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (RuffledPuppy)</author>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 07 Sep 2002 19:59:12 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ What would you do? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Imagine, for the purposes of this thread, that you are a woman. [That will be easy for some of you.] You've been happily married to a man you love for at least five years. You and your hubby have both always wanted to have a baby; it's a major goal in your lives, more important than great success in your careers. You've discussed adoption, but both of you feel strongly that it just wouldn't be the same. You want a baby that is genetically and biologically *yours*, a melding of the two of... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 07 Sep 2002 19:41:48 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ What's condescending about &quot;Beachy&quot;? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Beachcomber feels uncomfortable by my calling her &quot;Beachy&quot;.  She claims I am talking down to her.  I am talking down to her, but not because of that.<br><br>I have to talk down to her because she's a grown woman that I have to play a long and prompt and push and prod just to get her to take a solitary wobbly step on the way to adulthood.<br><br>How much work I have to put in just to get her to say a few words.  I really hate all this crap too.  Truthfully I hate to patronise even... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2002 19:35:59 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ is equality horizontal or vertical? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ i've noticed two different interpretations of 'equality' in skimming the various active threads here.  <br><br>for many of those calling themselves feminists (or having the label thrust upon them), it would appear that the equality of the sexes is not a qualitative one.  the question isn't of better/worse or superior/inferior.  there's the notion there that equality (or lack of) is quantitative:  statistically equal in the number of disparate abilities, if not necessarily possessing the same... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2002 18:25:09 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ So, this is what we have been deciding... ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi David, how are you today? Good! I am glad to hear it. Yes, I'm fine, thank you. And it is a sunny day, too!!<br><br>:) :)<br><br>Good morning to you all! Fresh coffee is offered into this thread, please help yourself!!<br><br>Ok, so... you may have noticed that a <!--EZCODE ITALIC START--><i>  slight</i><!--EZCODE ITALIC END--> agressivity could be almost felt in this forum today. It's subtle, but I think that if you look closely, you may <!--EZCODE ITALIC START--><i>  almost</i><!--EZCODE... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 02 Sep 2002 03:03:45 GMT</pubDate>
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